My Story
It's not what happens that makes us who we are, it's what we make it mean that makes the difference...
2020 changed everything.
I cannot sum it up easily, but here is the truth: things were wrong. I felt wrong. I was working for the wrong person, in the wrong place, being treated the wrong way.
As the only income earner while we home-educate our children, I carried crushing responsibility. Shoulders heavy. Nowhere to turn. Stuck, trapped, and deeply unhappy.
Something had to change.
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Trust and Surrender
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​I had already been doing deep personal work—therapy, coaching, plant medicine ceremonies—peeling back the layers.
It all came down to two things: trust and surrender.
I was doing the work with some of the most powerful psychoactive compounds on earth, so I leaned into trust. With my wife's blessing, I ended the relationship with my boss and dropped further into surrender.
But underneath? Fear. Fear of not being good enough.
We had to sell our house because we could not make the repayments. Trust and surrender. Trust and surrender.
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Finding FreeMind
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Then I met Tom, the founder of FreeMind.
I told him about the cracks I had seen in the leadership world; people struggling for space, for air. He said, "That is exactly what we teach in FreeMind. Come train with me and I will show you."
And he did.
I learned how people trip themselves up. How I was tripping myself up.
And I discovered one key truth:
Life is trauma-informed. Made from our challenges, from he meaning we make of things with our young minds.
Everyone's life is beautifully, often painfully, shaped by the trauma they have experienced, whether they have ignored it or taken ownership of it.
Most of us measure our self-worth by how we were treated. But that simply is not true.
Through FreeMind training, I dug into my inner world. I answered questions about my fear and hurt. I picked up my little inner children who needed love and support.
Then everything clicked into place. Now, as a qualified Clinical Hypnotherapist, I'm able to help so many people in so many powerful ways.
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Unlocking past stories in the way that best suits you to create forward momentum.
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What I Bring to This Work
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I do not just teach this work, I have lived it.
My background includes:
• 24 years in corporate leadership roles
• 10 years focused on leadership and personal development
• World travel, backpacking Southeast Asia and Australia
• Training in martial arts in Brazil and living around the world
• Deep experience with plant medicines and entheogens
My personal challenges include:
• Physical trauma and hospitalisation• Curing myself of Crohn's disease
• Workplace anxiety and stress
• Working with narcissists
• Being bullied at school and work
• Drug abuse and violence
I have experienced many aspects of the human condition. Now I help others process their pain and make sense of it all so they can feel—as Tom says—"Loved, loving, and lovable."
I offer a blend of NLP, leadership coaching, psychotherapy models, and FreeMind Rapid Change Therapy to help you endure and overcome adversity.

And now, as a result of the number of hours I've facilitated with FreeMind
and the level of learning I have undertaken, I'm now certified as an
Advanced Pratitioner

...what was most surprising and unexpected for me was the immense emotions I felt during this session. I didn’t feel embarrassed by the flood of tears I found myself in because Nathan constantly reassured with calming words.
LL, Health worker
Where do you want to get to?
If my story resonates with you, let us talk. Book a free discovery call and see how we can work together.
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Do you want to change the way life is right now, for the better?
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Do you want to change your way of being for your own well-being or to improve a relationship?
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Do you want to stop making excuses or holding back?
If yes to any of these, now is the time to book a call and let's start finding out why and make things better...
NB. FreeMind does not advocate the use of psychoactive compounds, and using them is not a part of the FreeMind process.
And any desire to pursue such activities is completely at the risk of the participant, and subject to their own research on said compound or chosen course of healing.